My journey began with an unfulfilling marriage and the longing of my soul.
My sexual longing was a thread that once I pulled it, unraveled my entire marriage, revealing all the things I was blind to.
For 17 years I was in a marriage where sexual intimacy had died between us.
At the same time, I was filled with a barely containable longing and desire.
What was going on?
Therapy didn’t help, and talking to my friends didn’t either. Most of them were in marriages where fulfilling sex was a thing of the past.
I tried to convince myself that turning away from this longing was a necessary sacrifice for the greater good of my marriage.
But I felt a part of me was dying.
It took leaving my marriage to discover that my longing was about much more than just sex. It was a longing of my life force energy, what I have come to call the Sexual Soul.
My Sexual Soul was alerting me not just to the sexual disconnection in my relationship, but in all the ways I couldn’t be my full self.
I went on to study sacred Daoist sexuality, qigong, somatic and energy healing, trauma release, authentic communication and more.
Now I help women who feel a deep unmet sexual longing, as I once did, so they can come into their full expression sexually—and in all areas of their life—as they come into the most powerful years of their life.
The four things I’ve learned on my journey
that form the foundation for all of my work:
Your Sexual Soul is SACRED.
Ancient wisdom traditions across cultures recognize that our sexual energy is our unique life-force essence - and that cultivating it is a necessary spiritual practice.
Trying to deny my Sexual Soul was denying my essential soul essence.Your Sexual Soul is for YOU.
It’s not for pleasing others, performing, or proving your worth.
It’s not something to give away in exchange for love, safety, or belonging.
This energy is not just about having a great lover. It’s for me in everything I do and everything I am.Your Sexual Soul is a taproot to your TRUTH.
Your Sexual Soul is the wise guide that holds the key to your healing, your pleasure and your authenticity. When you trust it, it will lead you everywhere you need to go.
My sexual longing was a thread that once I pulled it, unraveled my entire marriage, revealing all the things I was blind to. And it’s led me into the aligned life I always knew was possible.Your Sexual Soul needs YIN-YANG HARMONY to thrive.
Energetic dynamics in intimacy can make or break the sexual connection - and this holds true for your relationship with your sexual energy.
I spent my lifetime living from my yang (as many women do). Embracing the power of my yin transformed my sexual experiences and relationships -and awakened my deepest gifts.
Your Sexual Soul card from my original Power of the Yin Oracle Deck.
I incorporate the cards into each session, so they can support and inspire you throughout our journey.
Listen.
What do I mean when I talk about the “Sexual Soul”? This has been the topic of conversation on the many podcasts I’ve been privileged to be a guest on. You’ll also hear about the Power of the Yin, my oracle deck, and much more.
Watch.
This short film is an intimate look at my personal practice and a conversation about my relationship and constantly evolving understanding of the Power of the Yin, sexuality and our connection with the natural world.
This film is part of Genevieve Russell’s Women + Wholeness documentary series, which features extraordinary women who represent and exemplify wholeness, both personally and professionally.
The Wheel of Consent created by Dr. Betty Martin
Jeff Vander Clute Sourcing the Way
Sarah McCrum Money, Manifestation, Energy & Inner Technologies
MogaDao Institute, 2012-2014, qigong, sacred Daoist sexuality
Biodynamic Craniosacral Therapy, Santa Fe School of Massage
Working with Babies, John Chitty, Colorado School of Energy Studies
Polarity Therapy, Anna Chitty & Elizabeth Chitty-Sandoval, Colorado School of Energy Studies
The Journey Inward (Feldenkrais), Diana Razumny
Integral Anatomy Laboratory Intensive, Gil Hedley
Two Moon Tango, Liz Haight
Love+Leche, 2005-2020, I created, ran and sold my business
Influences, Training & Teachers.
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I am also a dancer, the mother of two grown children, and the only child of two artists.
I grew up in the Appalachian Mountains of upper East Tennessee. After living for 27 years in Santa Fe, New Mexico, I now work with clients all over the world in person and virtually.
I’m here to support you.
I offer my services in person and online to clients worldwide.
The first step is to schedule a free 30-minute Soul Listening Session with me.