What is Intimacy Coaching?
What is Intimacy?
Intimacy is a wide word: it speaks to the deepest connection you can have—with a partner, with family and friends; with yourself, your soul, your gifts; with the Divine.
It is inclusive of sex and relationships but not exclusive to them.
It’s about your Sexual Soul.
Sexuality is so much more than just sex. It’s an energy: what ancient wisdom traditions across cultures teach is our creative life force.
I call this energy the Sexual Soul.
Your Sexual Soul is an utterly unique blueprint: it is your authentic self, your deepest truth, that which you long to reveal and simultaneously that which you have learned to protect and hide in so many ways.
And your Sexual Soul is the source of your longing and your inspiration: for connection, to be seen and known, to be your true self with those you love and to give your gifts in the world.
What makes my work unique
I have a special focus unlike any other to sexuality: the Sexual Soul.
It is not only the soul of our eros; it is our unique, creative essence energy that expresses in everything we do.
At the heart of my work is what I call the Power of the Yin—the non-linear but deeply intelligent path to healing and wholeness.
These two core principles —the Sexual Soul and the Power of the Yin {the soul and the heart}—are what make my work unique, powerful and transformative.
What you receive from me as an Intimacy Coach?
Gentle, skilled and attuned guidance through a bespoke journey of healing and reclamation so you can remember your true knowing, and reclaim your sexuality for yourself.
A safe and nuanced process that will not only help you heal your sexual past but embody your feminine energy and your spiritual gifts.
Grounded coaching in the skills to make the real life changes you are ready for: authentic relationships, clear boundaries, speaking your truth, doing your work in the world and embracing your value.
How I work
I work
in the tangible realm of the body
the feeling realm of the emotions
the thinking realm of the psyche
and the subtle realms of energy and the soul
The signature of my work is
slowing way down
listening deeply
tracking the body
trusting the soul
I hold this all within the Power of the Yin: the intuitive, non-linear, mysterious and potent feminine of infinite potential and inherent creative wisdom.
How I hold space
What does intimacy mean to you?
What I hear from my clients
To be met in authentic presence with my partner
To reclaim my sense of self and my own sexuality
To feel safe to receive affection and allow myself to feel arousal
To be able to receive in a gentle way without feeling scared or angry
Having the relational wisdom and intelligence to lead my partner into intimacy
To create a loving partnership with my body
To feel feminine - to be able to express myself—how I feel and emotions
Speaking up in relationships
To be married or in a committed relationship
Confidence in myself, being free to be truly loving sensually, with my partner, myself
To turn towards what I really want
To be direct—to get to the heart of it
Permission to have what I desire
My sexuality for myself
To create all the way
Wholeness
To be an alive being
Confidence in my own judgement.
Life force amplified.
Wilder
Juicier
Free
Flirtatious
More vulnerable
My sensuality for me
Strength, softness, authority
What you might experience in Intimacy Coaching with me
In the words of the women, men and couples who have worked with me.
A space where I felt open to share authentically during the most profound and painful season I have experienced
Allowing me to connect with that life force energy in a different way—I need that for my health, my vitality and my aliveness
Guiding me beyond the strategic mind and back to my body for its wisdom and knowing
A space held with such honesty and compassion by Daven, it gave me the courage to go to the internal places I had previously held back from
Making it safe for me; never judging me and just letting it be
Leading me into a more grounded practice with my body
Building the capability in my body to hold the feminine
A transformative experience—talk about parting of the veils!
A unique, sacred energetic space for individuals and couples to explore their creative life force, their essence, what Daven names as our Sexual Soul
Gentle yet unapologetically bold guidance from Daven; taking me to the edge of my conscious awareness, softly guiding and transmuting old trauma stories and suffering into the gift of my full self expression.
Balancing deep work with fun and playfulness as appropriate
Being guided lovingly, directly and powerfully into the eye of my own storm, helping me face what I had been unprepared and unequipped to see—not as an intellectual exercise, but as a fully embodied experience
The ability to understand, embrace and care deeply for myself in ways that years of therapy never provide me.
Gently leading me to deeper ways of knowing.
Able to go deeper and birth more growth and discovery than ever before and to feel good about myself in the process.
Exploring my sexual energy—and so much more. Releasing grief and regrets, expanding embodiment, spirituality, love, connecting to possibilities, opening to desires of all kinds.
The Programs
