What is Intimacy Coaching?

What is Intimacy?

Intimacy is a wide word: it speaks to the deepest connection you can have—with a partner, with family and friends; with yourself, your soul, your gifts; with the Divine.

It is inclusive of sex and relationships but not exclusive to them.

It’s about your Sexual Soul.

Sexuality is so much more than just sex. It’s an energy: what ancient wisdom traditions teach is our creative life force.

I call this energy the Sexual Soul.

Your Sexual Soul is an utterly unique blueprint: it is your authentic self, your deepest truth, that which you long to reveal and simultaneously that which you have learned to protect and hide in so many ways.

Your Sexual Soul is the source of your longing and your inspiration: for connection, to be seen and known, to be your true self with those you love, and to give your gifts in the world.

What makes my work unique

I have a special focus unlike any other to sexuality: the Sexual Soul.

It is not only the soul of our eros; it is our unique, creative essence energy that expresses in everything we do.

At the heart of my work is what I call the Power of the Yin—the nonlinear but deeply intelligent path to healing and wholeness.

These two core principles —the Sexual Soul and the Power of the Yin {the soul and the heart}—are what make my work unique, powerful and transformative.

  • Gentle, skilled and attuned guidance through a bespoke journey of healing and reclamation so you can remember your true knowing, and reclaim your sexuality for yourself.

  • A safe and nuanced process that will not only help you heal your sexual past but embody your feminine energy and your spiritual gifts.

  • Grounded coaching in the skills to make the real life changes you are ready for: authentic relationships, clear boundaries, speaking your truth, doing your work in the world and embracing your value.

What you receive from me as an Intimacy Coach

How I work

I work

  • in the tangible realm of the body and the nervous system

  • the feeling realm of the emotions

  • the thinking realm of the intellect

  • the shadow realm of the psyche

  • and the subtle realms of energy, the soul and the invisible world

The signature of my work is

  • slowing way down

  • listening deeply

  • tracking the body

  • trusting the soul

I hold this all within the Power of the Yin: the intuitive, nonlinear, mysterious and potent feminine of infinite potential and inherent creative wisdom.

Who it’s for

My primary focus is women over 50 who feel a deep unmet sexual longing.

I also love to work with couples, as well as men, and Sexual Souls in any gender expression and age, who are ready and willing to go deep.

Who I don’t work with: people in acute crisis, those looking for quick fixes, or people who feel ambivalent the value of their Soul’s journey.

How I hold space

What does intimacy mean to you?

What I hear from my clients

To be met in authentic presence with my partner
To reclaim my sense of self and my own sexuality
To feel safe to receive affection and allow myself to feel arousal
To be able to receive in a gentle way without feeling scared or angry
Having the relational wisdom and intelligence to lead my partner into intimacy
To create a loving partnership with my body 
To feel feminine - to be able to express myself—how I feel and emotions
Speaking up in relationships
To be married or in a committed relationship
Confidence in myself, being free to be truly loving sensually, with my partner, myself
To turn towards what I really want
To be direct—to get to the heart of it
Permission to have what I desire
My sexuality for myself
To create all the way
Wholeness
To be an alive being
Confidence in my own judgement.
Life force amplified.
Wilder
Juicier
Free
Flirtatious
More vulnerable
My sensuality for me
Strength, softness, authority

What you might experience in Intimacy Coaching with me

In the words of the women, men and couples who have worked with me

A space where I felt open to share authentically during the most profound and painful season I have experienced

Allowing me to connect with that life force energy in a different way—I need that for my health, my vitality and my aliveness

Guiding me beyond the strategic mind and back to my body for its wisdom and knowing

A space held with such honesty and compassion, it gave me the courage to go to the internal places I had previously held back from

Making it safe for me; never judging me and just letting it be

Leading me into a more grounded practice with my body

Building the capability in my body to hold the feminine

A transformative experience—talk about parting of the veils!

A unique, sacred energetic space

Gentle yet unapologetically bold guidance; taking me to the edge of my conscious awareness, softly guiding and transmuting old trauma stories and suffering into the gift of my full self expression

Balancing deep work with fun and playfulness as appropriate

Being guided lovingly, directly and powerfully into the eye of my own storm, helping me face what I had been unprepared and unequipped to see—not as an intellectual exercise, but as a fully embodied experience

The ability to understand, embrace and care deeply for myself in ways that years of therapy never provide me

Gently leading me to deeper ways of knowing

Able to go deeper and birth more growth and discovery than ever before and to feel good about myself in the process

Exploring my sexual energy—and so much more; releasing grief and regrets, expanding embodiment, spirituality, love, connecting to possibilities, opening to desires of all kinds

The Programs and the Investment

Woman gazing left, smiling. Daven Lee, Intimacy Coach. HelloSexualSoul.com

The most powerful and transformative way to work with me is in a deep commitment process.

This investment of time and money gives you the spaciousness to slow down and listen deeply; trust strengthens; our work becomes more attuned and refined; and you can integrate and embody your transformation at a pace that is right for you.

You can breathe, unfurl and truly listen to the wisdom of your deepest knowing: your Sexual Soul.

  • Davenlee.com - Intimacy coaching for women - woman with her hands on her belly

    3-Month Journey

    $1997 | £1597

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    6-Month Journey

    $3997 | £3197

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    12-Month Journey

    $7997 | £6397

Daven Lee, Intimacy Coach for Women, HelloSexualSoul.com, DavenLee.com

Are you ready to experience the intimacy you’ve been longing for?